Diaz Comes Out as Gay to Right-Wing Radio Host, Who Says this Proves His “Innocence”

Also, the head of SPD’s communications office will be stepping down—but not just yet.

1. Former police chief Adrian Diaz told conservative talk-radio host Jason Rantz that he is a “gay Latino man,” and suggested that his being gay undermines the claims of the women who have accused him of with sexual harassment, discrimination, and creating a hostile work environment toward women as well as Black officers.

Previously, Diaz suggested he understood the devastating consequences of gender-based discrimination because of his race. “As a Hispanic American with decades of experience in law enforcement, Chief Diaz has faced significant discrimination throughout his career,” Diaz’ Seattle attorney, Ted Buck, told KUOW. Then Buck called the women “disgruntled, dissatisfied” liars.

In his post about Diaz’ new revelation, Rantz said that as a gay man, Diaz obviously could not have done any of the things he’s accused of doing.

“His innocence, overshadowed by these damning allegations of predatory behavior, remained hidden behind a secret he wasn’t ready to share,” Rantz wrote.

Diaz, 46, has a wife and three kids; in the interview, he said he and his wife have been sleeping in separate parts of the house for a long time.

In the interview, Rantz asked Diaz, “in retrospect, had you come out earlier, would that have saved your job?” Diaz responded, “You know, it’s a good question. I think it addresses a lot of the concerns of what people had. I mean, it doesn’t—you know, just because you’re a gay man doesn’t mean that you can’t be a misogynist…”

Through his attorneys, Mark Thomson and Andy Phillips of the Washington, D.C.-based firm Meier Watkins Phillips Pusch LLP, Diaz said that his comment about misogyny expressed “the opposite” of the view that gay men don’t sexually harass women. Diaz argued that PubliCola gave short shrift to this comment in an effort to suggest he was saying that being gay inoculated him against the legal claims against him.

Over and over, Diaz and Rantz implied that gay men are unlikely to sexually harass or assault women. “He had a clear defense against claims he wanted to sleep with a female officer, but the question was when he would go public,” Rantz wrote.

Incredible that this needs to be said, but being gay (or Latino, for that matter) does not exonerate anyone from allegations of sexual assault, sexual harassment, gender-based discrimination , creating a hostile work environment, or anything else Diaz and the department he led have been accused of doing.

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It’s beyond unfortunate that, in 2024, so many people (including cis gay men like Rantz) use “impossible—he’s gay!” as an all-purpose excuse for men accused of mistreating women, as if gender-based discrimination and harassment were about men’s uncontrollable sex drive rather than the assertion of power.

People who experience one form of discrimination can discriminate against other people. Someone who has experienced one kind of discrimination does not automatically understand what it’s like to experience a completely different kind of discrimination. Gay men are perfectly capable of sexually harassing, assaulting, discriminating against, and otherwise mistreating women. Full stop.

(Hard to remember now, but there was a time when it was briefly fashionable to “believe women,” or at least not dismiss them as conspiring liars, especially when multiple women came forward with separate allegations.)

Diaz told Rantz that Mayor Bruce Harrell knows all allegations against him are false, but, as Rantz summarized, Harrell was “hesitant to offer a full-throated public defense of his chief, even though he must have doubted the allegations.”

On Monday night, a spokesman for Harrell responded to PubliCola’s questions with the following statement:

“Former Chief Diaz informed Mayor Harrell and staff of his administration several months ago about his sexual orientation. Mayor Harrell supports him now, as he did then, for sharing this about himself and being an authentic leader. How former Chief Diaz’s sexual orientation will be treated during the litigation process will be left to the courts and we will not comment on pending litigation.”

2. The Seattle Police Department confirmed that Lt. John O’Neil is on his way out at SPD’s public relations office, which he has headed up since August 2022. Several women who worked for or with O’Neil have filed complaints against him alleging discrimination, retaliation, and sexual harassment, and at least three officers on his staff (two of the women who said he mistreated them and one man) have left their positions for patrol jobs in recent months.

A spokesperson for SPD said O’Neil is still in charge of the communications office, but added, “It has always been the plan, since the beginning of this year, for Lt. O’Neil to further his career by moving into another assignment. (Labor rules require us to do this.)” The spokesperson said it’s “very common for Lieutenants to want to move for more experience.” O’Neil’s position was posted on an internal job board last week.

The job is ordinarily held by a sergeant, not a lieutenant, and O’Neil’s lengthy assignment reportedly raised hackles at the Seattle Police Officers Guild. (Officers with the rank of lieutenant or higher are represented by a separate management union). SPOG president Mike Solan did not return PubliCola’s call for comment, and SPD did not respond to followup questions, including a request for more information about which “labor rules” require O’Neil to move on.

14 thoughts on “Diaz Comes Out as Gay to Right-Wing Radio Host, Who Says this Proves His “Innocence””

  1. So who was Diaz having sexual relations with and was he getting special treatment?

  2. He went with the Spacey defense lol and he couldn’t come out in 2020 because of covid and then George Floyd and then of course the following three years there was just no opportunity to do so. No, really the only time for him to come out that makes sense and would come off as genuine and not some political move is after a bunch of women who you bossed around sue you and accuse you of being a sex pest. KING SHIT. Miss you, Erica. This is great, tho. Makes me wish I’d stayed in the game.

  3. The worst sexual harassment I experienced in the workplace was by a gay man who was trying to hide the fact that he was gay and going out of his way to come off as an asshole hetero man because he was fired by his previous employer when they found out he was gay. So no, just because you’re a gay man, doesn’t mean your incapable of sexual harassment towards women. Sorry Mr. Diaz!

    1. And some of the worst harassment I’ve experienced has been from gay men who thought that because they were gay, it was OK to touch my body, comment on it (whether approvingly or disapprovingly), make sexual jokes, etc. because “everyone knew they weren’t serious.”

  4. Isn’t he being sued by a woman for demoting her for applying for the chief job while he was interim chief?

  5. “Gay men are perfectly capable of sexually harassing women”. You might think so, but juries are usually rational folks who come to the most obvious conclusion. No one is going to buy that a gay guy is going around leering at women intentionally unless there’s solid gold evidence of such. The evidence of one of his accusers: that he offered to help fix her windows and complimented her clothing. It sounds like there’s no case.

    1. News flash: bisexuality exists.

      Second news flash: if your male boss is in the closet about his sexuality, and he’s doing things like offering to help you around the house and commenting on your outfits, many women, *not knowing he was gay* would find that threatening and creepy.

  6. Hmm, only comes out when he thinks it might be his get-out-of jail-free card……Or, another possible spin on the situation is that he hit on women to demonstrate that he was hetero when he thought being gay might damage his career……There is a Netflix movie in here somewhere…..

  7. No wonder no one wants the $103k starting wage SPD jobs. What decent person wants to join a force full of misogynists and racists?

  8. Correction

    I certainly agree with you that all genders often misuse power regardless of their sexual orientation

    I would add that if the allegations from female officers are suggesting he has been hitting on them or making unwanted sexual advances, that the women charging him may be expressing there own prejudices about men or playing power games themselves.

  9. I certainly agree with you that misuse of power which all genders are susceptible to regardless of there sexual orientation

    I would add that if the allegations are suggesting he his hitting or making unwanted sexual advances on them the women charging him may be expressing there own prejudices about me or playing poker games themselves.

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